The Countermeasure for Group Gaslighting
I have been living with gang stalkers for more than a half a year, and I have been experienced gaslighiting in both schools and at home. I came up with these strategies that might work against the gaslighters. I do not know your situation, but it is good to know how to keep your brain clear and aware of their strategies. If you do not know what is gaslighting, please read the pages that I explain about the psychological abuse. If you do not know what it means and how it works, I am not sure you can handle these techniques. These techniques are developed by my knowledge in psychology. I took Introduction to Psychology and have read plentiful of Psychology books and articles. If you do not understand why and how this strategy works, please check spend time reading some classic psychology textbooks.
This countermeasure for gaslighting is an extended version of what Dr. Robin Stern writes in her book, “The Gaslight Effect.” She suggests the gaslightee to move away from the gaslighting network. Since the gang stalkers try to appear in your life wherever you move, her strategy seems not to work for the TIs. Then, we need to develop a new strategy for the organized everlasting type of gaslighting. And here is the answer. It is free for you! If you think such information useful, please make a donation, so that I could keep my work updated and help other TIs in future. Some people pay when they know it comes with a price tag. You can do so to me as if you just buy me a lunch for these suggestions. Check out the Profile section for further information.
1. Let them know that you know how they are involved in group gaslighting. What the group gaslighters want to know is their superiority from the gaslightee. As a definition, a gaslighter has weakness in their self consciousness and that insecurity drives him to work on gaslighting to make sure he is right. Therefore, the gaslightee should claim that they are working in organized gaslighting. By doing so, the gaslightee can keep onself superior from the group gaslighters. If you can tell them they are using gaslighting strategies to defend their stories and opinions, it also reveals that their needs of defending in the conversation which comes from their lack of security.
2. Do gaslighting on them!!! The countermeasure of gaslighting is gaslighting!!! The best way to get away from gaslighting is to avoid conversation that drives you to hear gaslighting. However, if that is not possible, then you should use gaslighting against the gaslighter. This will make the conversation painful for both gasligher and gaslightee. So, the gasligher would avoid conversation in future to try not to get hurt. The gaslighter starts a gaslighting when they felt hurt in the conversation. It is not necessary for organized stalkers, but it happens when you argue with a stalker member individually. I assume this effect is probably a result of their abused relationship with their bosses. Their bosses are trained to work on gaslighting, then they must use it even unconsciously to communicate with the members in lower lank. I think this is a disadvantage of their training style.
3. Try to have a strong will. You must become a Mr. Right or Ms. Right! In order to work on gaslighting, you must have a strong will to defend your opinions and consciousness. From the beginning, you have an advantage of using this strategy since you are targeted for the gaslighting. You did not feel the weakness in self consciousness, but someone else did. When someone try to persuade you, try to check their conversation. Their claim might not logical or fit into the situation. For example, when I saw a guy with a picture of Our Lady of Guadalupe, I asked him why he has the picture. He could not answer the question. His friend showed up and tried to change the subject by asking me questions. What I did was keep asking the guy who had the picture that why he had it. If stalkers try to change the topic or blame you for something you do not understand, say so to them. They sure cannot explain to you and you can start a gaslighting on them. But make sure your claim is logical enough, or they might find fault of your claim to make you to be the gaslightee.
4. How does it work? Please watch my YouTube videos for how you can do it. You can find the example of gang stalking and gaslighting in the link here. I have not create a film for this specific topic, yet “Religious Rights Violation by Eritorean Refugees Vol.1 and Vol.2” are the good examples. If you are not aware of how to work on the gaslighting against the gaslighters, check the video and see how I kept asking them “Why he had the picture?” It was the critical weakness on these stalkers, so the entire group tried to defend him by misleading the topic. Gaslighting hurts everyone, yet hurting an enemy is a good strategy for a defense. It does not matter who starts the gaslighting. You would eventually involve in gaslighting again by them. Then, why do you hesitate to start one. In a combat, unexpected first blow can knock the opponent out. You do not have to wait until someone attacks you verbally.
5. Collect the records of their gaslighting. If you think the evidences are crucial for their organized psychological abuse, share the evidences with others. If it happened in an institution or organization, the company will get trouble. But if it is about the psychological abuse by the employers, the company cannot sue you as the organized gaslighters are the ones started the psychological abuse first. A documentary film is not a crime, or Michael Moore is already sued by the companies! Contact with other victims in the area. Share them on line with the victims. Use the evidences for protest against the organized crime! Documentary films are the advocacy of social problems. Thank God, Freedom of Press and Freedom of Expression are protected by the laws for Internet!!! I am glad that California law protects the Internet media rights! By sharing evideces of wicked people, we can claim them as crazy people in our society.
When we cannot get out from gaslighting network, what we can do is keep the network unstable and unsuitable for gaslighting.
09/12/07